The Cock Course intensive: Date TBC

A 4-week intensive course for penis owners.

Date TBC

My male bodied clients find that the work I do with them transforms not only the way they touch, respect and nurture their own bodies but also the way they are with their partners bodies.

“Your manageable yet deeply profound teachings have changed my life, and the way I touch myself and my partner. In such a short time, the pleasure in my body now seems, as you say ‘limitless’. I had no idea how much I didn’t know.  Your simple techniques have given me a much larger understanding of my bodies behaviour.  Thank you is not enough.”

As Sex Coach & Bodyworker I hear the same questions and common complaints from penis owners.

This course focuses on:

  • Erection dissatisfaction
  • Ejaculatory choice
  • Performance anxiety
  • Pleasuring a partner.

Each week we take science and ancient spiritual practices to bring you exercises and homework to help increase or capacity for pleasure in your life.

These are the tools for achieving choice and freedom within our sex lives.  They are really simple and manageable and due to that people think they won’t work.  Changes will occur in your body and your mind over time.  Your response to touch will change.  Your arousal will change. Your connection with a partner will change.

You will be guided expertly through each weeks topic, where Sex Coach Jem Ayres will put the tools in your hands. So what you do with them is upto you.  Trust in the process.  You are your own teacher.  You’re both the scientist and the guinea pig.

Its an empowering process.

Our bodies don’t need to be mysteries to us anymore.  With arousal or physical response seemingly ‘just happening’.

Week by week we’ll be breaking down each topic and taking a very practical and science-based approach to our bodies, our pleasure and our arousal response.

Expect explanations, demonstrations, self-touch techniques and homework.

The programme:

Week 1

Erection Dissatisfaction

  • The potential causes of losing your erection
  • Looking at the unhealthy beliefs around male genitalia and unrealistic sexual expectations
  • Identify your personal needs for arousal.
  • Busting soft cock mysteries 
  • Understand the pleasure scale and how we can use this to track our arousal and last longer
  • Sensation versus performance.
  • What to do if and when erection dissatisfaction occurs with a partner
  • Practical touch technique to reawakening sensation in the body

Week 2

Ejaculatory choice

  • Looking at the potential causes for rapid ejaculation
  • Find the crossroads in our pleasure
  • Identifying the ‘point of no return’
  • The nervous systems role in arousal
  • Self-regulation techniques
  • How to step away from genital focussed action and what to do instead.
  • Different between low arousal and high intensity touch techniques
  • Cock massage and Taoist self-pleasure techniques

Week 3

Performance anxiety

  • Learning that performance anxiety can look different to expected and what can contribute to it.
  • Looking at what we can do when performance anxiety hits.
  • How to let go of the goal and be lead by curiosity instead of the mind.
  • Discussing the power of the mind and how to overcome negetive self-talk
  • Techniques for centring and getting ‘out of our head’ and into our bodies.
  • Learning what sex can look like nd even be better when we try something new / step away from genital focussed activity.
  • Touch techniques for focussing the mind and tuning into sensation
  • How to ‘be’ during sex instead of having to ‘give’

Week 4

Pleasuring your partner

  • How to pull the previous practices together and translate those to partnered sexual experience.
  • How to use self-regulation tools in the moment
  • Finding a way of sharing your learnt experiences with a partner
  • Genital massage and touch techniques for your partner.
  • Looking at how to create a safe container for yourself and your partner in sexual explorations
  • The 3 levels of consent
  • Communication, agreements and boundaries
  • Touch and intimacy activity to step into exploring your partners body in a different way.
  • Learning how to give cleanly without expectation, and hold space for your partner to fully receive.
  • Pleasure as a meditation

About Jem Ayres:

Jem is a certified Sex Geek –  A Sexological Bodyworker, Tantra practitioner and teacher, a workshop facilitator, public speaker and Orgasmic Embodiment coach.  She has over 10 years’ experience in the field of self-development through the body.

Jem now teaches what she likes to call ‘Sexual Self-Development’ and those who have met

Multi-talented and creative she is passionate about helping people to connect with themselves through the body, fine-tuning into the subtleties of our life force, using sexual energy to fuel all areas of life.


Online:
Date: TBC
7.30-9.30pm
£200 for the full 4 week course. 
Paypal: paypal.me/jemayres

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