Orgasmic Embodiment: The Full Body Orgasm Retreat. Suffolk, May 2020

22nd – 24th May 2020

Where embodiment, pleasure and acceptance become our medicine!

This retreat is open to both men and women who wish for a re-membering and a re-claiming of their body and its pleasure potential, at this beautiful, luxury, award winning retreat centre.

There is so much shame attached to our bodies, our pleasure and our sexuality, that we’ve become guarded and created blocks within our energy system.  This restricts not only our ability to feel but also to flow as orgasmic beings.

When we step into the fullest expression of our life force energy real transformation can occur in both our inner and outer worlds.

Bringing breathe, movement, awareness, language and conscious touch to the body can create release allowing us to regain agency of our body and its responses.

During this weekend we’ll be demystifying Orgasmic life force and tracking the blocks within our own energy through.

As well as Full Body Orgasm work, the weekend will also include Meditations, Dance, Breathwork, Cuddle Puddles, Cacao Bliss states, Ritual, Erotic Trance States, Consential Touch, Orgasmic Yoga and more….

Everything is an invitation. You’ll be encouraged to honour your own organic pace of release and processing- we’ll meet you where you’re at.

Location: Inner Guidance Retreat Centre, Hill Farm, Lavenham, Suffolk

Who we are:

Jem Ayres:

Jem is a certified Sex Geek –  A Sexological Bodyworker, Tantra practitioner and teacher, a workshop facilitator, public speaker and Orgasmic Embodiment coach.  She has over 10 years’ experience in the field of self-development through the body which at one point included running a burlesque company empowering hundreds of women.

Jem now preaches what she likes to call ‘Sexual Self-Development’ and those who have met her know she walks the walk.

Overcoming stage 4 cancer became her focus for a while, and through this process she embraced and worked with the healing power of orgasm.

Multi-talented and creative she is passionate about helping people to connect with themselves through the body, fine-tuning into the subtleties of our life force, using sexual energy to fuel all areas of life.

Luxury Accommodation: The Inner Guidance Retreat

This is the UKs leading holistic venue for retreats, surrounded by 500 acres of natural landscape, plus their own grounds for us to relax and unwind in, if you find some spare time during the weekend. 

Address:  Inner Guidance Retreat Centre, Hill Farm, Brent Eleigh Road, Lavenham, Suffolk, CO10 9PB

Location:  Please check out the direction on Inner Guidance Retreats website here:

Train:  Sudbury is the nearest train station.  I can help people arrange lift shares from London or Train station pick-ups / cab shares.

Food:  Esmeraldas kitchen:

The retreat would be complete without an amazing Chef fueling us for the weekends work.  Esmeralda is a Yogi, a retreat chef and all round marvelous being.  Her menu for the weekend is Vegan, Gluten and refined Sugar free.  Healthy, abundant and nutritious, you can taste the love!  The menu is high in anti-oxidants, rich in super foods and high in fiber.  There is always enough for seconds, so no one goes home hungry!!!

We provide 3 meals a day, plus snacks and hot drinks.  Whilst we try to cater for all dietary requirements, if you need something specific for yourself do bring anything you feel you’d need to make the weekend perfect for you.

Please let us know your dietary needs asap.


My events have a high level of interest and space is limited therefore its recommended you book well in advance.

Non-refundable deposit is required at the time of booking and please return the attached booking form.

Super early bird booking: £295 (£100 deposit paid before 15th Feb) 

Early bird booking: £330 (£100 deposit paid before 1st April) 

After 1st April: £365

Full balance to be received by 1st May.

 Price covers:

  • 2 nights accommodation in plush shared rooms. Two to a room.
  • All meals, snacks and refreshments provided. The nutritional plant based menu is amazing and abundant!
  • All workshop teaching and resources


Payment must be made at the time of booking to secure your place.

Non-refundable deposit – £100

Bank transfer: Email Jem to book your space:

Monthly payment options:

Pay your £100 deposit now then set up a standing order to pay monthly instalments for the remaining amount. Or pay in bits as-and-when. Must be paid in full by 1st May.

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This weekend promises to be richly fulfilling. I’m all about learning how to live life to its fullest and following my heart-felt joy.  With care, integrity and loving acceptance you’ll be well looked after.

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