Orgasmic Embodiment Retreat: Expanding Your Capacity For Pleasure. Glastonbury, May 2021

21st – 23rd May 2021

Where embodiment, pleasure and acceptance become our medicine!

This retreat is open to both men and women who wish for a re-membering and a re-claiming of their body and its pleasure potential, at this beautiful retreat centre.

There is so much shame attached to our bodies, our pleasure and our sexuality, that we’ve become guarded and created blocks within our energy system.  This restricts not only our ability to feel but also to flow as orgasmic beings.

When we step into the fullest expression of our life force energy real transformation can occur in both our inner and outer worlds.

Bringing breathe, movement, awareness,
language and conscious touch to the body can create release allowing us to
regain agency of our body and its responses.

Everything is an invitation. You’ll be encouraged to honour your own organic pace of release and processing- we’ll meet you where you’re at.

Luxury accommodation: Earth Spirit Centre, Glastonbury

Our accommodation for the weekend is called Little Earth, within the Earth Spirit Centre, 5 miles from Glastonbury, Somerset.

EarthSpirit lies within the ‘temenos’ (sacred enclosure) of Avalon, situated in a beautiful landscape between two nature reserves

The shared rooms are beautiful and comfortable with a mixed of shared or ensuite bathrooms, which is reflected in the price choices.

Over the weekend we have time to use the sauna. 

The hot tub is now unfortunately unavailable.

The food provided for the weekend is healthy, abundant, vegan and gluten free – other reasonable dietry requirements can be catered for so please let us know your needs.

Earth Spirit website here: Little Earth page

Jem Ayres:

Jem is a certified Sex Geek –  A Sexological Bodyworker, Tantra practitioner and teacher, a workshop facilitator, public speaker and Orgasmic Embodiment coach.  She has over 10 years’ experience in the field of self-development through the body.

Jem now preaches what she likes to call ‘Sexual Self-Development’ and those who have met her know she walks the walk.

Overcoming stage 4 cancer became her focus for a while, and through this process she embraced and worked with the healing power of orgasm.

Multi-talented and creative she is passionate about helping people to connect with themselves
through the body, fine-tuning into the subtleties of our life force, using
sexual energy to fuel all areas of life.


My events have a high level of interest and space is limited therefore its recommended you book well in advance.

Non-refundable deposit of £100 is required at the time of booking and you’ll need to return the booking from I email you.


Lockdown discount:

Standard accommodation: £295

En-suite accommodation: £335

 Price covers:

  • 2 nights accommodation in a solo rooms.
  • All meals, snacks and refreshments provided. The nutritional plant based menu is amazing and abundant!
  • All workshop teaching and resources


Payment must be made at the time of booking to secure your place.

Non-refundable deposit – £100

Bank transfer: Email Jem to book your space:

Monthly payment options:

Pay your £100 deposit now then set up a standing order to pay monthly installments for the remaining amount. Or pay in bits as-and-when.

Abit more…..

This weekend promises to be richly fulfilling. I’m all about learning how to live life to its fullest and following my heart-felt joy.  With care, integrity and loving acceptance you’ll be well looked after.

Corona Virus update:

So the retreat is very much still going ahead and no massive changes are required to make it as safe as possible for all.

Here are some thoughts:

My work is not touch dependant…and neither is your pleasure!

As I always say to everyone, your pleasure is not dependant on touch.  This is a big key to my teachings, especially when coming to work with our sexual energy . Infact my clients report that including physical touch can be the louder sensation therefore robbing ourselves of the more subtle and usually richer energetic experience. I’m far more interested in working with the subtleties of the energetics and thats always what this retreat has been about.. 

Personal boundaries:

My work is always around consent and autonomy of our bodies. So even if you were to attend a ‘touch based’ event of mine there is never any promise that you will be giving or receiving touch.  Individuals who attend any of my events are supported to work within their own boundaries and comfort level.  Some of my greatest learnings have been around how to navigate non-touch situations whilst experiencing great pleasure.

Expanding our capacity for inner-freedom

With such restrictions and limits on our external freedoms, it really is the time to learn the tools for attaining greater inner-freedom.  This retreat weekend and the practices meets this!


A vital piece of my work is about how we can self-resource. That means being able to fuel ourselves without need for external stimulus or validation.  This means that when we do get to experience touch we’re not doing it from a needy, taking or empty place.

This is a vital tool for life, not just during these times.

Hygiene protocol.

There will be regular hand washing and hand gel stations.

If you would feel more comfortable wearing a face covering please bring one, but this won’t be enforced.

None of this should be stressful or impact you and your experience.  We’ll be regularly cleaning the space and behind the scenes alot of cleaning, thought and preparation will be going on to make the space as safe as possible for our group.

The group and venue:

Numbers will be smaller than originally planned, but a huge group wouldn’t be healthy for our nervous system as we come out from lockdown.  We need to take our time feeling back into how it is to be in a group and how intimacy now looks to us with whatever the last few months of lockdown has presented for us.

The venue has plenty of space!!!  And you’ll encouraged to take your own space when you need it. Theres a private and beautiful outdoors area that we will have the option of the use of for the work.  Its a dream of mine to do this work outside!! Weather depending obviously.

I really feel the current restrictions and the environment we’ve all been living in this year will be making this retreat an even more rewarding and rich experience of growth, healing, intimacy and pleasure!

My work doesn’t need to massively change to accommodate either the groups needs or government guidelines, its more the practicalities of numbers and hand washing.

But we will be setting the boundaries together as a group at the start of the retreat, as we would usually on any of my retreats.

I do hope you find this reassuring.  Do get back to me with any queries.

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