Home Practise Videos
These videos are helpful for those who wish to further their practise at home either in preparation for working with Jem, or to keep up the benefits inbetween sessions.
Home Practise One: Breath & Sound
Breath and Sound are the basics of expanding pleasure throughout the body.
Home Practise Two: The Inner Flute
Jem builds on breath and sound adding on the visualisation of energy up the body connecting sex and heart.
Home Practise Three: Breath, Sound & Movement
Adding movement to the previous practises to help raise arousal in the body.
Embodiment Practices with Jem
The more we invest in our sexual self-development sessions, the more we will get out of the experience. Here Jem runs through some useful embodiment practices to help you set the foundation for either a Bodywork or Online Coaching booking with her.
How to prepare for your session with Jem
Jem here explains the importance of setting a foundation for your online and bodywork sessions.
Sensation Tracking
Jem talks you through a process of grounding with breath and tracking sensation throughout the body.
Body Lead Movement
Jem introduces what she calls Body Lead Movement where we tap into the bodies wisdom and use that as our guide to let us move
Shaking
Jem here leads a process of shaking where we can release any tensions in the body and any stresses that have built up, letting go
Guided Self-Touch Meditations
Explore new ways to meet your body with these guided practices.
The Foundation
This Self-Touch guided meditation encourages us to raise awareness of subtle sensation in our body using breathwork, which can lead to greater arousal.
Jem's Sex Coaching on YouTube
Jem’s YouTube channel is where she talks about the common challenges in sex, pleasure and our bodies. Here she also explains the aspects and benefits of her work.
Sex Coaching Community Circle online with Jem Ayres
Jem Ayres, Sex Coach from Orgasmic Embodiment speaks about the importance of gathering in tribe for the online Sex Coaching community circle group she runs.
Benefits of Full Body Energy Orgasms
The Benefits of Full Body Orgasms: You can last longer during sex You can let go of the fear or the need to ejaculate Opening up your body for a greater capacity of pleasure throughout your whole system Relaxed arousal supports the immune system Energy charging, instead of energy draining Relaxing, detoxing ad releasing happy hormones Riding the wave of pleasure instead of one peak climax means you don’t get the chemical drop which leads to the orgasm hangover, which can look like agitation or dissatisfaction with your partner for the days / weeks afterwards, till your next climax.
The benefits of self-pleasure during social-distancing and self-isolation.
Sex coaches and Sexological Bodyworkers, Jem & Hugs talk about the benefits of self-pleasure during the challenging times of self-isolation. And announce their online sex
Premature Ejaculation
Jem talks about Premature Ejaculation and how tracking yourself on the Pleasure Scale can help.
What is Orgasmic Embodiment?
Jem talks about how we can allow orgasmic energy to spread through our whole body and use that in our wider life.
What is Sex?
Jem asked ‘What is Sex?’ to the run up to her Empowered Womans Book Club and here are the results of her survey. Watch this
What is Orgasmic Yoga?
Orgasmic Yoga isn’t about getting into tricky positions on a mat. It’s about consciousness and union with our touch.
The 'Sex Chats'
Jem hosts The Sex Chats Podcasts talking to real people about real bodies, real pleasure and real sex. Having the conversations other aren’t.
Featuring Jem
Interviews, videos and podcasts featuring Jem.
Prioritising Pleasure: How to Reclaim Your Body, Boundaries, and Desire
Jem speaks of her own incredible journey of experiencing sexual shutdown and coming back to pleasure through Tantric practices…
“Embodied Orgasmic Living – Part 2” with Jem Ayres: Let’s Talk about Pleasure
Jem speaks of her own incredible journey of experiencing sexual shutdown and coming back to pleasure through Tantric practices…
“Embodied Orgasmic Living – Part 1” with Jem Ayres: Let’s Talk about Pleasure
Jem speaks of her own incredible journey of experiencing sexual shutdown and coming back to pleasure through Tantric practices…
Heal burnout with pleasure, with sex coach Jem Ayres
Jem Ayres and Occupational Therapist Beki Eakins discuss overcoming burn out through pleasure.
Pleasure Grazing – Interview with Jem Ayres on “May The Life Force Be With You” Podcast!
This podcast is not just your average show – it’s a journey into the depths of what life force truly means, featuring thought-provoking discussions,
Diva podcast with Ali Hendry in the Relationship Room
Diva podcast with Ali Hendry in the Relationship Room, talking to Jem Ayres about creating micro-pleasure, reframing failure & unearthing tantric touch.
The Disgusting Bitch Podcast with Kalia, featuring Jem Ayres
Episode 5: Breaking the Good Girl Conditioning – How to be a Disgusting Bitch in Bed… and other jems!
Jem Ayres (Sexological Bodyworker & Sex Coach) chats to Richard Harrison (Life Coach) on video about bodies, sex & pleasure
Richard is a life coach. He has studied and practiced personal development for two decades. He uses an eclectic model in coaching which finds strategies
How To Achieve More Embodied Pleasure with Jem Ayres
When did we last award someone for being the most orgasmic, pleasure centred human? Answer: erm… never. So where are we supposed to get our
Healing with Full Body Orgasms with Jem Ayres
All of You with Madalaine Munroe: “Today’s episode is all about pleasure, the full body kind. My wonderful guest Jem Ayres joins me today to
Inspiring Conversations with Jem Ayres
Jem & Amelia chatting about cancer, full body orgasms, ‘Sex is good but…’ and 3 practices for setting the foundation for intimacy. Watch the full
Orgasmic birthing – Interview With Jem Ayres The Orgasm Coach
In episode 7 Amelia interviews the orgasm coach Jem Ayres about orgasmic birthing! They talk about the importance of pleasure, how-to tips, and full body
The Witches Kitchen – ‘Pleasure with Jem Ayres’ Podcast
The first of many conversations, I hope, where we will speak openly and freely about sex and pleasure as a milestone on the road to
Orgasmic Embodiment – Personal Power, Pleasure and Healing Connection
In this episode with Jem Ayres we explore the inherent human need for physical touch. We explore our relationship to pleasure and the amazing life
Healing Cancer through Choice, Self-Love & the Power of Belief
Jem has one of the most provocative, sexy, interesting cancer recoveries you’ll ever hear. In 2015 Jem was diagnosed with malignant tumours in her brain,
Pleasure Responsibility
YOU are responsible for your pleasure. Let’s take the pressure off our partners. How can you increase your comfort and pleasure right now?
Inspiring Talks Brighton – The Healing Power of Orgasm
Jem takes to the stage to share her personal story of using Orgasmic Lifeforce during her Cancer. Watch this video on YouTube
The Sex Lectures – The Healing Power of Orgasm
Jem has one of the most provocative, sexy, interesting cancer recoveries you’ll ever hear.
Brighton Talks Sex – Soft Cock Rocks Podcast
Erections are not just a male issue. Focusing on erection size and strength is so damaging to men, and relationships as a whole. Listen to
The Eagle Podcast
Finding your joy and why cancer is not a fight Jem speaks about being your own healer and the importance of pleasure. Listen here
Home Practise Music Playlists
Check out Jem’s Spotify playlists for music to suit your home practice, whatever the mood.
Money Manifesting Playlist
To get into the energy of Manifesting Financial Abundance in your life. Turn it up loud and bring some energy with your body.
Manifesting a Fun Relationship Full of Desire Playlist
Get down and dirty with this playlist meant to fuel the super sexy energy to help create desire in our bodies and our relationships.
Heart Opening Music Playlist
Music for Opening your heart whether connecting with yourself or another.
Erotic Trance States Playlist
A playlist of track to lose yourself into Erotic Trance State with. Press play, turn it up, move, shake, breathe, make sound.
Sensual Touch Playlist
This playlist is perfect for Sensual Touch, either with ourselves or our partners.