
Workshops
& Retreats
Jem runs workshops and events, as well as leading sessions and
giving talks for groups, retreats and organisations.
If you would like to book Jem to run a
workshop or to give a talk, contact her here.
“Thank you so much for your energetic orgasm demonstration and self-touch workshop. It helped me to understand my own body and gifted me the freedom to fully feel and express myself.”
Upcoming Events
Join Jem for an eclectic mix of divine events

Conscious Connections @ All About Love Festival, 4th – 8th Aug 2022
4 nights camping, music, healing, ceremonies, talks and workshopsat The Secret Garden Site, Grange Farm, Abbots Ripton, PE28 2PH 4th – 8th August 2022 This

Orgasmic Embodiment & The Pleasure Lessons @ The Intimacy Gathering, 12th – 17th Aug 2022
A tantric journey into sensuality, joy, and connection 12th – 17th August 2022 This gathering is a unique journey into Tantra vision. Incorporating dance, meditation,

Orgasmic Embodiment & Outercourse @ Shambala Festival, 25th – 28th Aug 2022
Celebrating 20 years of Adventures In Utopia 25th – 28th August 2022 The Shambala Festival has been delivering creativity for over a decade. According to

The Empowered Woman’s Book Club (online). Starts 31st August 2022
This isn’t just any Book Club….this is The Empowered Womans Book Club, facilitated by Certified Sex Coach and Bodyworker, Jem Ayres. So many women ask

Couples Touch Course: Urban Tantra(online), starts 13th Sept 2022
Introducing my new 15-week Couples Touch Course on Tantric Sex… Disguised as a book club this course will teach us the skills needed to expand our sex lives with Tantric techniques and

Bristol Touch Party, 6th Oct 2022
Join Jem Ayres, Orgasmic Embodiment Coach as she guides you in an exploration of touch exercises. Thursday 6th October, 6.30-10.30pm You’ll be invited to connect

Couples Retreat: Full Body Orgasm & Tantra Massage. Glastonbury, 7 – 10th October 2022
A rich place for relationships to flourish. When we step into the fullest expression of our life force energy, real transformation can occur in both

Orgasmic Embodiment: Full Body Orgasm Retreat. Derby, 2nd – 4th December 2022
Where embodiment, pleasure and acceptance become our medicine! This retreat is for those who wish for a re-membering and a re-claiming of their body and

Valentines Couples Retreat: Deepening Intimacy. Glastonbury, February 2023
10th – 12th February 2023 A rich place for relationships to flourish. This retreat can help us step into conscious relating, setting some strong intentions
Past Events

Self-Pleasure for Vulva owners: Starts 18th April 2022
A 3-week course. Pleasure always starts with the self. If you’ve opened up your own pathways to pleasure and let curiosity lead you then you’ll

Couples Guided Practice Sundays (online) March 2022
Sundays: 6th, 13th & 20th March Online Introducing a series of 3 practice mornings for couple. You can attend one, two or all three. Set

Couples Valentines Deepening Intimacy Retreat. Glastonbury, 11-13th February 2022
A rich place for relationships to flourish. This retreat can help us step into conscious relating, setting some strong intentions for how we want our
“What Jem does is another level.”
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Book Jem to speak or facilitate at your event
“Jem is a gifted and inspirational speaker, when sharing her story she invites the audience into her truth and her authenticity. This enables her to deliver a talk that not only inspires and motivates but invites the audience to ponder the bigger questions about life, health and pleasure. Listening to Jem is effortless.”
Jem tailors her talks and facilitation to suit the needs of the group. From the more conservative to the radical, she can win over any audience, spreading her empowering message and making discussions around sexuality accessible to all.
Workshop and Talk subjects:
Jem speaks on a wide range of subjects and no two talks are ever the same.
If there is a subject which interested you but isn’t covered here do contact Jem to discuss.
- Outercourse – Pleasure Beyond The Genitals
- The Art of Receiving
- Expanding Womens Pleasure: What Lies Beyond the Clitoris
- Reframing Mens Pleasure: Soft Cock Rocks
- How To Speak To Your Children About Pleasure, Consent And Their Bodies.
- Boundaries and Consent
- Erotic Health
- Finding Your Authentic ‘Yes’
- Pleasure Responsibility
- Yes To Pleasure = Yes To Life
- The Healing Power Of Orgasm
- Overcoming Cancer Through Veganism, Self-love And The Power Of Belief.
- From Cancer to Freedom: The Power Of Choice