Workshops,
COURSES & Retreats
Jem runs workshops, courses and events, as well as leading sessions and giving talks for groups, retreats and organisations.
If you would like to book Jem to run a
workshop or to give a talk, contact her here.
“Thank you so much for your energetic orgasm demonstration and self-touch workshop. It helped me to understand my own body and gifted me the freedom to fully feel and express myself.”
Events
Join Jem for an eclectic mix of divine events
Couples Deepening Intimacy Day Retreat. Brighton, Oct 2026.
A rich place for relationships to flourish. Saturday 10th Oct. (TICKET LINK: https://dandelion.events/e/l95gx) This Couples Deepening Intimacy Day Retreat can help us step into conscious
The Empowered Woman’s Book Club (online). Starts Oct 2026
This isn’t just any Book Club….this is The Empowered Womans Book Club, facilitated by Certified Sex Coach and Bodyworker, Jem Ayres. So many women ask
Womens Journey. Brighton, Oct 2026 – March 2027
A 6 month container for expanding your capacity for pleasure. We grow through embracing all that we are, including our body and our pleasure. This
Online Self-Pleasure Workshops for Vulva Owners: Nov – Dec 2026
Pleasure always starts with the self. A series of Online Self-Pleasure Workshops for those who have vulvas, who wish to deepen their practice of pleasure.
Tantric Touch Workshop Brighton: 5th Dec 2026 (Mixed Gender)
Join our Tantric Touch Workshop Brighton Saturday 23rd May 2026, a mixed gender event designed to explore conscious touch, tantra, breathwork, and authentic connection. What
Cock Owners Self-Pleasure Practice for Men & Penis Owners: 8th December 2026
Pleasure always starts with the self. A devotional time to be yourself, your body and your own creative, sexual energy. Whether its to recharge, kick-start
Valentines Tantric Touch Temple (Brighton) mixed gender, 6th Feb 2027
Join Jem Ayres, Orgasmic Embodiment Coach as she guides you in an exploration of touch exercises in a space for connection and softening into desire.
Valentines Couples Deepening Intimacy Day Retreat. Brighton, 13th Feb 2027.
A rich place for relationships to flourish. This Valentines Couples Deepening Intimacy Day Retreat can help us step into conscious relating, setting some strong intentions
Full Body Orgasm Retreat. Derbyshire, April 2027
23rd – 25th April 2027 Where embodiment, pleasure and acceptance become our medicine! This retreat is for those who wish for a re-membering and a
Full Body Orgasm Retreat. Derbyshire, Sept 2027
17th – 19th September 2027 Where embodiment, pleasure and acceptance become our medicine! (April 2027 Full Body Orgasm Weekend here) This retreat is for those
Recorded Practices
Vulva Touch Meditation (Techniques for Yoni Massage & Self-Pleasure)
Vulva Touch – Recorded Practice Techniques for Yoni Massage & Self-Pleasure. Whether you practise Vulva Touch as a Self-Pleasure meditation on your own, or share
Self-Pleasure lesson for people with penises. (C*ck Massage)
C*ck Massage / Self-Pleasure.A recorded lesson on touch techniques. “Your manageable yet deeply profound teachings have changed my life, and the way I touch myself
Heart Meditation & Yoni Awakening – Guided Practice
Have access to this guided practice in your own home, to revisit at your leisure, for a lifetime recording access. “This was paradigm shifting. Thank
The Pleasure Scale: A Self-Paced Somatic Pleasure Practice Video Course
A 5-Session Guided Journey into Pleasure, Presence & Sexual Energy.Have access to this guided somatic pleasure practice in your own home, to revisit at your
Past Events
The Corfu Tantra Festival: September 2026
6th – 11th Sept 2026. Celebrate Light, Love & You. 6 days, co-creating an intentional community with people from all over the globe. 10 international
Corfu: Goddesses in Everywoman. Sept 2026
31st Aug – 4th Sept 2026 A place where you can really practice basking in pleasure: the sun, sea, sand, or the pages of a
Tantric Touch Temple Brighton, Mixed Gender, 22 August
Join Jem Ayres for a Mixed Gender Tantric Touch Temple in Brighton Join Jem Ayres, Orgasmic Embodiment Coach, as she guides you through an exploration
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Book Jem to speak or facilitate at your event
“Jem is a gifted and inspirational speaker, when sharing her story she invites the audience into her truth and her authenticity. This enables her to deliver a talk that not only inspires and motivates but invites the audience to ponder the bigger questions about life, health and pleasure. Listening to Jem is effortless.”
Jem tailors her talks and facilitation to suit the needs of the group. From the more conservative to the radical, she can win over any audience, spreading her empowering message and making discussions around sexuality accessible to all.
Workshop and Talk subjects:
Jem speaks on a wide range of subjects and no two talks are ever the same.
If there is a subject which interested you but isn’t covered here do contact Jem to discuss.
- Outercourse – Pleasure Beyond The Genitals
- The Art of Receiving
- Expanding Womens Pleasure: What Lies Beyond the Clitoris
- Reframing Mens Pleasure: Soft Cock Rocks
- How To Speak To Your Children About Pleasure, Consent And Their Bodies.
- Boundaries and Consent
- Erotic Health
- Finding Your Authentic ‘Yes’
- Pleasure Responsibility
- Yes To Pleasure = Yes To Life
- The Healing Power Of Orgasm
- Overcoming Cancer Through Veganism, Self-love And The Power Of Belief.
- From Cancer to Freedom: The Power Of Choice