Workshops
& Retreats
Jem runs workshops and events, as well as leading sessions and
giving talks for groups, retreats and organisations.
If you would like to book Jem to run a
workshop or to give a talk, contact her here.
“Thank you so much for your energetic orgasm demonstration and self-touch workshop. It helped me to understand my own body and gifted me the freedom to fully feel and express myself.”
Upcoming Events
Join Jem for an eclectic mix of divine events
Couples Valentines Deepening Intimacy Retreat. 11-13th Feb, Glastonbury
A rich place for relationships to flourish. This retreat can help us step into conscious relating, setting some strong intentions for how we want our
Orgasmic Embodiment: Full Body Orgasm Retreat. Glastonbury, 17-19 December 2021
Where embodiment, pleasure and acceptance become our medicine! This retreat is for those who wish for a re-membering and a re-claiming of their body and
The Empowered Woman’s Book Club (online). Starts 12th Jan 2022
This isn’t just any Book Club….this is The Empowered Womans Book Club, facilitated by Certified Sex Coach and Bodyworker, Jem Ayres. So many women ask
Couples Touch Course : The Heart of Tantric Sex. Online starts 18th Jan 2022
Introducing my new 13-week Couples Touch Course on Tantric Sex… Disguised as a book club this course will teach us the skills needed to expand our sex lives with Tantric techniques and
Orgasmic Embodiment: The Full Body Orgasm Retreat. Glastonbury, 13-15 May 2022
13-15th May 2022 Where embodiment, pleasure and acceptance become our medicine! This retreat is open to both men and women who wish for a re-membering
Couples Retreat: Full Body Orgasm & Tantra Massage. Glastonbury, 7-10th Oct 2022
A rich place for relationships to flourish. When we step into the fullest expression of our life force energy, real transformation can occur in both
Couples Retreat: Deepening Intimacy. Glastonbury, 17-20 June 2022
17th – 20th June 2022 A rich place for relationships to flourish. This retreat can help us step into conscious relating, setting some strong intentions
Past Events
Your Vulva: Meeting in Meditation. Online, 2nd November.
An online workshop for all Vulva owners, honouring and reclaiming the sacredness of our genitals. Tuesday 2nd November 7.30-9.30pm Here we can meet our vulva
The Empowered Womans Book Club starts May 26th
This isn’t just any Book Club….this is The Empowered Womans Book Club facilitated by Certified Sex Coach and Bodyworker, Jem Ayres. So many women ask
Lockdown Couples Connections; A series of online workshops. February 2021
This workshop series is aimed at couples in lockdown together wishing to expand their capacity for pleasure and exploration. During these Lockdown Couples Connections, we’ll
The Empowered Woman’s Book Club Online: Starts 20th January 2021
This isn’t just any Book Club….this is an Empowered Womans Book Club facilitated by Certified Sex Coach and Bodyworker, Jem Ayres. So many women ask
The Cock Course intensive: February 2021
A 4-week intensive course for penis owners. Monday 1st, 8th, 15th & 22nd Feb My male bodied clients find that the work I do with
Tuesdays: Online Sex Coaching Circles 2021 (Coming back soon)
A mixed gender online Sex Coaching circle. Both individuals and couples welcome. Every 2 Tuesdays Mixed gender Sex Coaching Circle with Jem Ayres: Every two
Orgasmic Embodiment Retreat: Expanding Your Capacity For Pleasure. Glastonbury, May 2021
21st – 23rd May 2021 Where embodiment, pleasure and acceptance become our medicine! This retreat is open to both men and women who wish for
Self-Pleasure for Vulva owners: Next dates TBC
A 6-week course. Pleasure always starts with the self. If you’ve opened up your own pathways to pleasure and let curiosity lead you then you’ll
Deepening Intimacy Couples Retreat. Glastonbury, June 2021.
11th – 13th June 2021 A rich place for relationships to flourish. This deepening intimacy couples retreat is the perfect place to work towards changing
Couples Conscious Connections, 15th March, London.
Sunday 15th March Leytonstone, London. 1-6pm I’m inviting you, with your partner to step into greater connection and intimacy. The day will include exercises and
London: Couples Tantra Massage & Genital Massage Day for Valentines – 15th & 16th February
Couples Tantra Massage & Genital Massage day. FULL: Saturday 15th February. Still Space: Sunday 16th February A beautiful way of honouring and celebrating your partner,
London & Brighton: Full Body Energy Orgasm Workshops, February
“Your workshop has given me exactly what i needed. The energy and connection was ecstatic…thank you.” When we work with Full Body Energy Orgasms we
23rd – 27th Oct: Desire & Intimacy Festival, DORSET
OSHO LEELA, DORSET, UK FOR THE UNDER 40S JEM WILL BE OFFERING: Orgasmic Yoga:The Art of Mindful Self-Pleasure How can we step away from the
1st Dec: Ecstatic Cacao Breathwork @ International Day of Cacao Festival, London
This is going to be a day long festival extravaganza, celebrating raw cacao & chocolate in all its manifestations. The menu will include nearly 10
29th Nov: New Moon Cacao & Gong Meditation, Essex
The New Moon is about new beginnings, and this evening of intention setting, heart meditation and sound will help us dream into what we wish
“What Jem does is another level.”
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Book Jem to speak or facilitate at your event
“Jem is a gifted and inspirational speaker, when sharing her story she invites the audience into her truth and her authenticity. This enables her to deliver a talk that not only inspires and motivates but invites the audience to ponder the bigger questions about life, health and pleasure. Listening to Jem is effortless.”
Jem tailors her talks and facilitation to suit the needs of the group. From the more conservative to the radical, she can win over any audience, spreading her empowering message and making discussions around sexuality accessible to all.
Workshop and Talk subjects:
Jem speaks on a wide range of subjects and no two talks are ever the same.
If there is a subject which interested you but isn’t covered here do contact Jem to discuss.
- Outercourse – Pleasure Beyond The Genitals
- The Art of Receiving
- Expanding Womens Pleasure: What Lies Beyond the Clitoris
- Reframing Mens Pleasure: Soft Cock Rocks
- How To Speak To Your Children About Pleasure, Consent And Their Bodies.
- Boundaries and Consent
- Erotic Health
- Finding Your Authentic ‘Yes’
- Pleasure Responsibility
- Yes To Pleasure = Yes To Life
- The Healing Power Of Orgasm
- Overcoming Cancer Through Veganism, Self-love And The Power Of Belief.
- From Cancer to Freedom: The Power Of Choice