
Workshops
& Retreats
Jem runs workshops and events, as well as leading sessions and
giving talks for groups, retreats and organisations.
If you would like to book Jem to run a
workshop or to give a talk, contact her here.
“Thank you so much for your energetic orgasm demonstration and self-touch workshop. It helped me to understand my own body and gifted me the freedom to fully feel and express myself.”
Upcoming Events
Join Jem for an eclectic mix of divine events

Self-Pleasure for Vulva owners: Starts 18th April 2022
A 3-week course. Pleasure always starts with the self. If you’ve opened up your own pathways to pleasure and let curiosity lead you then you’ll

The Empowered Woman’s Book Club (online). Starts April 2022
This isn’t just any Book Club….this is The Empowered Womans Book Club, facilitated by Certified Sex Coach and Bodyworker, Jem Ayres. So many women ask

Couples Touch Course (online): Starts 3rd May 2022
Introducing my new 15-week Couples Touch Course on Tantric Sex… Disguised as a book club this course will teach us the skills needed to expand our sex lives with Tantric techniques and

Orgasmic Embodiment: The Full Body Orgasm Retreat. Glastonbury, 13-15th May 2022
13-15th May 2022 Where embodiment, pleasure and acceptance become our medicine! This retreat is open to both men and women who wish for a re-membering

Couples Retreat: Deepening Intimacy. Glastonbury, 17-20th June 2022
17th – 20th June 2022 A rich place for relationships to flourish. This retreat can help us step into conscious relating, setting some strong intentions

Couples Retreat: Full Body Orgasm & Tantra Massage. Glastonbury, 7-10th October 2022
A rich place for relationships to flourish. When we step into the fullest expression of our life force energy, real transformation can occur in both
“What Jem does is another level.”
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Book Jem to speak or facilitate at your event
“Jem is a gifted and inspirational speaker, when sharing her story she invites the audience into her truth and her authenticity. This enables her to deliver a talk that not only inspires and motivates but invites the audience to ponder the bigger questions about life, health and pleasure. Listening to Jem is effortless.”
Jem tailors her talks and facilitation to suit the needs of the group. From the more conservative to the radical, she can win over any audience, spreading her empowering message and making discussions around sexuality accessible to all.
Workshop and Talk subjects:
Jem speaks on a wide range of subjects and no two talks are ever the same.
If there is a subject which interested you but isn’t covered here do contact Jem to discuss.
- Outercourse – Pleasure Beyond The Genitals
- The Art of Receiving
- Expanding Womens Pleasure: What Lies Beyond the Clitoris
- Reframing Mens Pleasure: Soft Cock Rocks
- How To Speak To Your Children About Pleasure, Consent And Their Bodies.
- Boundaries and Consent
- Erotic Health
- Finding Your Authentic ‘Yes’
- Pleasure Responsibility
- Yes To Pleasure = Yes To Life
- The Healing Power Of Orgasm
- Overcoming Cancer Through Veganism, Self-love And The Power Of Belief.
- From Cancer to Freedom: The Power Of Choice