
Events
Workshops & Retreats
Jem runs workshops and events, as well as leading sessions and giving talks for groups, retreats and organisations.
If you would like to book Jem to run a
workshop or to give a talk contact her here
“Thank you so much for your energetic orgasm demonstration and self-touch workshop. It helped me to understand my own body and gifted me the freedom to fully feel and express myself.”
Upcoming Events
Join Jem for an eclectic mix of divine events

Lockdown Couples Connections; A series of online workshops. February 2021
This workshop series is aimed at couples in lockdown together wishing to expand their capacity for pleasure and exploration. During these Lockdown Couples Connections, we’ll

The Empowered Woman’s Book Club Online: Starts 20th January 2021
This isn’t just any Book Club….this is an Empowered Womans Book Club facilitated by Certified Sex Coach and Bodyworker, Jem Ayres. So many women ask

The Cock Course intensive: February 2021
A 4-week intensive course for penis owners. Monday 1st, 8th, 15th & 22nd Feb My male bodied clients find that the work I do with

Online Sex Coaching Circles: Start January 2021
A mixed gender online Sex Coaching circle. Both individuals and couples welcome. Starting Tuesday 12th January, ongoing. Mixed gender Sex Coaching Circle with Jem Ayres:

Deepening Intimacy Couples Retreat. Glastonbury, March 2021.
19th – 21st March 2021 A rich place for relationships to flourish. Lets step into the new year setting some strong intentions for how we

Orgasmic Embodiment Retreat: Expanding Your Capacity For Pleasure. Glastonbury, May 2021
12th – 14th February 2021 Where embodiment, pleasure and acceptance become our medicine! This retreat is open to both men and women who wish for
Past Events

Self-Pleasure for Vulva owners: Next dates TBC
A 6-week course. Pleasure always starts with the self. If you’ve opened up your own pathways to pleasure and let curiosity lead you then you’ll

Orgasmic Embodiment: The Full Body Orgasm Retreat. Suffolk, May 2020
22nd – 24th May 2020 Where embodiment, pleasure and acceptance become our medicine! This retreat is open to both men and women who wish for

Deepening Intimacy Couples Retreat. Suffolk, September 2020.
A rich place for relationships to flourish. This is a safe yet playful space for yourself and your partner to learn about deepening your connection

Couples Conscious Connections, 15th March, London.
Sunday 15th March Leytonstone, London. 1-6pm I’m inviting you, with your partner to step into greater connection and intimacy. The day will include exercises and

London: Couples Tantra Massage & Genital Massage Day for Valentines – 15th & 16th February
Couples Tantra Massage & Genital Massage day. FULL: Saturday 15th February. Still Space: Sunday 16th February A beautiful way of honouring and celebrating your partner,

London & Brighton: Full Body Energy Orgasm Workshops, February
“Your workshop has given me exactly what i needed. The energy and connection was ecstatic…thank you.” When we work with Full Body Energy Orgasms we
“What Jem does is another level.”
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Book Jem to speak or facilitate at your event
“Jem is a gifted and inspirational speaker, when sharing her story she invites the audience into her truth and her authenticity. This enables her to deliver a talk that not only inspires and motivates but invites the audience to ponder the bigger questions about life, health and pleasure. Listening to Jem is effortless.”
Jem tailors her talks and facilitation to suit the needs of the group. From the more conservative to the radical, she can win over any audience, spreading her empowering message and making discussions around sexuality accessible to all.
Workshop and Talk subjects:
Jem speaks on a wide range of subjects and no two talks are ever the same.
If there is a subject which interested you but isn’t covered here do contact Jem to discuss.
- Outercourse – Pleasure Beyond The Genitals
- The Art of Receiving
- Expanding Womens Pleasure: What Lies Beyond the Clitoris
- Reframing Mens Pleasure: Soft Cock Rocks
- How To Speak To Your Children About Pleasure, Consent And Their Bodies.
- Boundaries and Consent
- Erotic Health
- Finding Your Authentic ‘Yes’
- Pleasure Responsibility
- Yes To Pleasure = Yes To Life
- The Healing Power Of Orgasm
- Overcoming Cancer Through Veganism, Self-love And The Power Of Belief.
- From Cancer to Freedom: The Power Of Choice