Conversations with Svend: “Let’s Talk about Pleasure”. Part 1
Listen to Part 2 here
This is a tour de force conversation with orgasmic embodiment coach Jem Ayres @jemayres6943 speaking about what ‘orgasmic embodiment’ means, Jem speaks of her own incredible journey of experiencing sexual shutdown and coming back to pleasure through Tantric practices, and somatic bodywork, after many years of therapy, how she used the harnessing of life force full body orgasmic energies and other health protocols choosing life in a practical miracle recovery journey from advanced melanoma. (Jem today works as a coach for people affected by cancer regaining sexual wellbeing) Jem’s talks about the healing powers of full body orgasm on her website www.jemayres.co.uk and also here in this conversation elucidates on the health benefits of harnessing orgasmic energies, Jem explains the differences between peak orgasms and slower full body orgasmic release. Jem explains what sexological bodywork is; we speak about the various people in the field of conscious sexuality to whom I have been introduced by Jem, people like Eshana Spiers who works around facilitating cuddling workshops etc and have worked around the female menstrual cycle and supporting men in nurturing and supporting women in their lives in their cycles, Madeleine Munro, Catherine Hale who works around nervous system expansion to be able to receive money, abundance, wealth, sexual educators Sheri Winston whose books like “WOMENS ANATOMY OF AROUSAL” informs Jem’s work and is recommended to both female and male clients by sex coach Jem, and also by podcast host Svend, along with Betty Martin’s Wheel of Consent and books like “THE ART OF RECEIVING AND GIVING” – Jem shares her enthusiasm for some of her online offerings like her legendary “Empowered Women’s Bookclub” (upcoming theme is female sexual fantasies, bookclub beginning on 23/10) and “Couples’ Bookclub” – her community initiatives like Sex Chats Brighton, next on Thursday 24/10 – and also her offerings online offerings for men “Holding the Seed” which is holding space for men to commune online around sexuality and harnessing erotic energy – a new four week course is open for booking. Starts Wednesday 5/11/24. We venture into enquiries of what it truly means to be ‘trauma informed’ We hear Jem speaking of her own self care and self love practices, how she practices veganism and acts as a safely attuned attachment role model for her clients. Then we speak about safety, boundaries, more safety and stronger boundaries, discussing masculine/feminine dynamics and safety. This is the one you wanna wrap up warm to listen to, again and again, so much value, here. How can the ‘people pleasers’ and the ‘givers’ learn to receive? And so much more. Please visit Jem’s website www.jemayres.co.uk @jemayres6943 for more inspiration. Please listen to this and subscribe – Jem has agreed to revisit with me for a part 2. Art work, trailer, production and editing credit: Caitlin Longden.
Jem’s Links
Website: www.jemayres.co.uk
Facebook: www.facebook.com/jemayrescoaching
Instagram: Instagram.com/jemayres