About Jem Ayres

“I can’t speak highly enough of Jem Ayres.
She is gifted, honest, skilled and is a living example of how pleasure can be generated inside oneself and then shared out there in the world.”


Jem is a certified Sex Geek –  A Sexological Bodyworker, Tantra practitioner and teacher, a workshop facilitator, public speaker and Orgasmic Embodiment coach. She has over 10 years experience in the field of self-development through the body which at one point included running a burlesque company. Jem runs The Empowered Woman’s Book Club, and was co-founder of Brighton Talks Sex. Healing herself from stage 4 cancer with everything and anything that worked means Jem is alive to tell her story of the Healing Power of Orgasm through both personal and professional experience. Multi-talented and creative she is passionate about helping people to connect with themselves through the body, fine-tuning into the subtleties of our life force, using sexual energy to fuel all areas of life.

Bodyworker &
One to One Coach

Public Speaker

Workshop Facilitator

What my clients say about me

“I’ve been working with Jem for nearly a year as my coach. She is beautifully intuitive and seems to know exactly what is the missing part to achieve balance. She is totally present with your ‘stuff’ and so encouraging whether you’re struggling or flying. I highly recommend working with Jem.”